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[quote=Anonymous]Op, how much do you pay her per hour and how many hours does she have? Then, what were the increases you gave her? And how much is she asking now? I am asking all those question to appropriately address your question; however like all the other posters here, I agree that it is not ok for you to not pay her for the time you are going on vacation with your family, especially since you haven't even given her any notice. If you have a contract, what does it say about vacation (you going on vacation and her not having to pay) , if you haven't addressed that part, I strongly advise you to pay her because it is out of her control that you are traveling and regardless she still has the same amount of bills to take care of. For example if you ask for a raise at your job and the denied it, but later you see that they are planning in buying new computers (while the ones they have are not even old), you would be a little mad about it. And then, if your company has to close it's doors for 1 week because it was flooded or something, you will most likely still get paid. So please, even if you think your nanny is questioning how you spend your money, she is still a human being and has feelings and needs (bills) and she still needs to be paid for the week you are traveling. Don't take be a mean and resentful person just because of that simple remark. There are so much more things to worry about in life than to spend your time plotting how to get back at your nanny because she said a comment. And in addition, if she is good to your kids, why would you be mean to her? [/quote]
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