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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote: MB here. OP - I think that if you had framed your original post in a way that indicated you have a nanny who has been with you for two years and who has received two raises and bonuses in that time, but is now asking for another raise less than a year from the last one, and questioning your expenditures simultaneously, you would have gotten a different reaction. Those facts - just on the bare bones of them - paint a very different picture than your original post. Unfortunately, all of your follow-up emails support the tone of your original post, if not the facts. You may have a nanny who is inappropriately questioning and pressing. But your nanny may have a boss who communicates that the nanny is unimportant and needs to "stay in her place". You just don't sound very nice, so your tone makes it difficult to take your side. I can easily imagine the counterpoint from your nanny. My bet would be that both of you have valid points in some areas and poor judgment/behavior in others. +1 from another MB.[/quote] +2. Another MB.[/quote]
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