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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - any interest in salvadging it?  You could apologize specifically for the things that were your fault, ask her to clarify your contract and expectations and give it another couple weeks?[/quote]

No. I plan on apologizing again for asking to leave early and having my phone on during work hours, but other than that, I don't feel too much like I did anything else wrong. She was home everyday this week. [b]She knows I wasn't a sit on my butt nanny at all[/b], and honestly, with her being home, I tried very hard to be constantly engaged and 'on' since boss was right there. I think the pregnancy has stressed her and I really feel for her. I do wish them the very best and if I were in her situation, I would definitely seek someone who can do housekeeping and errands since it's dificult right now. For $20/hr, she will absolutely find an appropriate fit for household and child care needs.[/quote]

The kid had an hour-long class and you wanted to sit on your ass in your car to play on your phone. How exactly does that demonstrate that you're not a "sit on my butt nanny at all"?  That is EXACTLY what you are. [/quote]

Pray tell, what WAS OP supposed to do if not sit and wait? Apparently you have never taken kids to activities cause ths is EXACTLY what I'm always asked to do. [/quote]

I sit and wait at each activity.  I do not leave the facility.  The kids are ultimately your responsibility not the facility and that is what she is getting paid for.  [/quote]

Lol, then why did the mom get mad at OP for not asking to run errands? [/quote]

Mom is not feeling well.  OP could have stepped up and offered to help more until mom is feeling better.  OP wants to leave the facility and do her own thing while getting paid for an hour.[/quote]

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