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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just tell your sister to schedule her aupair to work on the days they visit or add her to the guest count.

The issue sounds like she was invited to visit on her 'off hours' and you were thinking she was there as an 'on the clock' aupair.

If that wasn't being counted towards her 45 hours in the week of childcare, she was your guest and the fact you expected her to watch the kids and not get a plate when she was hungry was rude.

Sounds like the adults need to have more clear expectations about how to handle an international exchange visitor in their family for a year.

She's not a nanny.[/quote]

[b]It is also rude to grab the first plate as a guest[/b] especially an extended guest. APs chose this program and they should know that this is NOT their own home (even the host family's home is NOT her own home). So don't act like that. This is called MANNERS. [/quote]

Really?   I have never heard of it being "MANNERS" that the host serves themselves first.   I've always heard guests first. [/quote]

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