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[quote=Anonymous]I am sort of surprised that you did not start with asking if she was ok and if she needed anything. If any of the nannies we have had texted me that, I would respond with "are you ok? What do you need? How can I support you?" When she said she could not work anymore, I would go to "did something happen? Are you hurt? Are you in a safe place?" Or more vague "This is so unlike all of our other interactions. I am hoping you are ok and am here if you need anything. Please let me know if there is something I can do." I would not, even calmly, ask what the reason was for quitting. The questions get to the same place, but one is about centering someone as a human and the other is transactionally about her being a worker for you. [/quote]
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