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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are just body parts.  Seek therapy....[/quote]

Are you always that obtuse or is today just one of those days? Of course they are just body parts, nobody is out there body shaming. 
The fact that we all have certain body parts and that there is no shame in having them holds no bearing nor does it give us any right to make others uncomfortable by exposing them. 
I am sure you wouldn't want your boss showing up to work naked nor your kids teacher's to teach in see-through clothing with no underwear on or totally starkers and if they did, I am sure you wouldn't be tutting ''they are just body parts.'' 
If you as a parent would feel uncomfortable with anyone exposing their penis to your daughter (or son) regardless of age without their consent, you should be aware as a parent not to expose your private parts to other people's children including adults without their consent. If you can't bother to not flash young people inside your home because putting on a robe is too hard, don't host people in your home (and make sure your kids have access to resources that teaches them about their right to have boundaries around their and other people's bodies since you will not be teaching them that.)

People who think they can just flash others because they are ''just body parts'' and that people who aren't willing to put up with it should seek therapy are what's wrong with this world and why women assume they will be dismissed or shut down if they report being sexually harassed and the fact that other women defend this type of behavior and use the same tropes is sickening in all honesty.
You have NO idea what people's background are, it's totally possible that your Au Pair /Nanny or whoever else you/your DH are casually flashing have an history of sexual abuse, you have zero idea and because you have zero idea and shouldn't be exposing your genitalia to anyone without consent, you should do what any decent human being naturally does and dress appropriately when around people who work for you and your children.

When I visit my friend's house I expect not to be exposed to their genitalia despite being in their home, if you are going to treat your Au Pair like you would treat a family member, treat her like your parents-in-law, if you wouldn't flash FIL or MIL on their yearly 1-week stay at your house and would purposefully make sure you are well-covered around them and would be mortified to be naked in front of FIL, feel similarly about AP, and take the same extra steps to prevent that from ever happening. [/quote]

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