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[quote=Anonymous]This thread just goes to show how poorly some domestic employees are often treated or regarded. They are expected to behave and perform professionally yet they are not given professional environments to actually do their work and live/work comfortably. They are expected to operate under the assumption of being part of the family/friend/roommate whenever its convenient (such as in this case, not that its justified by any means). Its high time we start treating the people who care about  families and especially children, like people. None of us would feel okay knowing that our daughter/friend/sister/aunt/mother was living and working in a place where she had no idea if/when she could potentially be exposed to someone's private parts. If any of us worked in any work place where we on several times were exposed to someone's nakedness, we would not think twice about reporting/addressing it.

Somehow its supposed to be excused because its going on in a private home...? Its disturbing to see the number of comments which seem to imply that AP should somehow feel grateful that she hasn't seen more, or should have to be okay with this because she is living in OP's home. The same people making these comments will be at rallies, walks, protests and posting social media hash tags about women's welfare. We need to and can do better. Its simple, OP's husband needs to understand the responsibility that comes with employing someone to work in your home, understand and respect boundaries and that this is not okay for him or the Au Pair. [/quote]

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