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[quote=Anonymous]So I think my opinion here is between two extremes.  I am probably more comfortable than most with nudity...I just always have been and not because I "get off on it" or because I want to show off my body but it's just that I feel comfortable with other people seeing me naked and I'm comfortable naked.  However, I know that not everyone is cool with it so I am respectful about it and keep covered up when I'm not around my immediate family (even at home).  Our AP's room is in the daylight basement and ours is on the second floor so I tend to sometimes walk around partially clothed when she's not on duty and I know she won't be upstairs to do something in the kids' room or something.  I am always fully dressed when we are on the first floor or in the basement/playroom.  My husband also follows this and would throw on a robe if he were going downstairs but definitely walks around in his boxers in the mornings and evenings when we are upstairs.

That said....I've gotten AP opinions on what I'm going to wear to a party and undressed and redressed in front of them and have changed also in front of them for swimming.  I also have helped AP shop for a bridesmaid dress and helped them decide what to wear to parties which involved me seeing their boobs.  NBD.  Our second AP walked in on my husband getting out of the shower when we rented a beach house for a week.  They were both embarrassed in the moment but laughed about it later.  There's a chance the AP could come up to the second floor when one of us is not fully covered but I'm not going to change my behavior for that unlikely occurrence.

It probably also matters at what point in your relationship this stuff is happening.  Luckily the AP who walked in on my husband was almost at the end of her year with us and we were close by that point.  She was VERY shy and sheltered when she first arrived and could imagine her being totally traumatized if it had happened in the first month or two.  
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