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[quote=Anonymous]Former AP here. I used to be in the programme when I was 21 (now 32). That time there was limited information about AP. Although I believe that the regulations are changed since my time as an AP. I would like to share my experience. Dad was abusive, mother worked full and rarely at home, children were unhappy. I took care 3 children (5, 8, 10). I worked 45 hours a week, sometimes extra hour because DH or HM accused me for not doing effiently. There was several times they made me work 15 minutes extra because the children told their parents I took more than 10 minutes in bathroom. I once refused but DH hit me with a pen and trown it to my face. I cried. He yelled at me to stop being childish, he paid me to work not to spend my time spaing myself in the bathroom. I wasn't. Also my money mysteriously missing sometimes. I ended the programm after 4 months. I just went out and never came back, later I was accused stealing their money (and they told police that was the reason why I left). Worst experience in my life, but lesson learned. Not all AP are threated bad, there are so many AP that fit in a good family. But please do not ignore the fact that some AP are threated like a slave. If you are HP or AP that know another AP that threated so badly, please do not ignore them. Thank you.[/quote]
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