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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life is so scary, I don't know how you people even leave the house!  [/quote]

Is it too much to ask DB to install solar powered garden lights from their house down both directions of the public sidewalk so I can park on either side. And also is it too much to ask DB to watch out the window 5 minutes before my scheduled arrival time to make sure the coast is clear and watch me approach for safety? And is it too much to ask that DB install a biometric house lock so someone can't break in incase I forget to lock the door? Oh and is it too much to ask that MB provide pepper spray as part of my compensation package?[/quote]

I was sexually assaulted by a stranger while walking alone in the dark.  This isn't something to joke about.  Everyone deserves to have safe working conditions.  Why is asking for a porch light to be left on such an unreasonable thing to you?
This entire thread makes me sad.
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I would not leave my porch lights on all night for nanny. Nor would I race down at 6:30 am to turn them on for her. If my nanny ever asked for something so ridiculous I would fire her, but luckily I have nothing to worry about because I hired a mentally stable nanny.[/quote]

You would fire someone for asking you to leave a porcelain tht on for her in the dark?  That says waaaaaaaay more about you than it does her.[/quote]

I need someone mature, stable, and smart to care for my DS, not someone who is worried about being raped every morning and can't function in the real world.[/quote]

I function just fine in the real world and am very mature, smart and stable.  I'm not afraid of being raped every morning, I just don't like putting myself in situations that can jeopardize my safety. Walking from my car in the dark is absolutely a dangerous situation.  You'd prefer your nanny be willing to take chances with her health and safety?  If she's willing to take chances with her own life, she'll have no problem taking chances with your child.
You are a silly woman.
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