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[quote=Anonymous][quote]OP here. Not a great situation. There have been several DV contacts with the police. She seems like a really good person, but he seems like a really troubled guy with a severe drinking problem that results in violence toward her. He's no longer drinking but it's hard to say whether that changes much.

OP again adding to this: I learned this from a call with the county sheriff's office and reading the arrest reports.[b] When talking with the sheriff's office, the woman I spoke with told me that she is in charge of running background checks for home day care providers, and when doing so, they also run background checks on all persons associated with them.[/b] She said she's found that a remarkably high number of women in caregiver positions - home daycare, nanny, similar - are domestic assault victims. She said "I don't know why I'm telling you this, but I just find it surprising how common that is with these women."

So something to think about - there are probably an awful lot of nannies out there whose boyfriend or spouse you may not have Googled but who are currently living in domestic violence situations.[/quote]

You are a lying troll.[/quote]

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