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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PPs above - you made your priorities clear to your nanny and should have budgeted for an increase in her salary after two years!

It's women like you who give MBs a bad name.  [/quote]

OP here, let me clarify for all the harpies who are adding their own assumptions to my post. Nanny has received a raise during our 2 years, she just took the timing of this anniversary to ask for another. [b]We have budgeted our nannies salary and raises and we don't feel it is time for another at this point in time[/b].[/quote]

This should have been your response when she asked for a raise rather than telling her you can't afford it.[/quote]

At this point I want to just let her go and start over with a new nanny at the starting salary. Sure she has been with us for a little over two years but what is she doing better than any other nanny to justify her increased hourly rate??? I'm just so over it.[/quote]

Oh, i don't know, spent two years bonding with your kids?[/quote]
Exactly. Go study a little childhood development, particularly the issue of attatchment. And what are the consequences of severed attatchments. You may not care, but we'd perfer to think you do care about your own child.[/quote]

Where are you in the discussion about hiring a nanny who plans to have a family of her own in the next year.  Several MBs said they are afraid the nanny would leave then and that's why they wouldn't hire her.  Interesting how you only use this argument when it benefits the nanny.[/quote]
Yet again. You don't have a clue what you're talking about.[/quote]

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