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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Anonymous wrote:
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Are the people who are against having the nanny go to co-op okay with the parents cutting the nanny's hours and pay during the time the child and parent are at the co-op? Somehow, I think not. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Good luck keeping a nanny while doing that. You can't have your cake and eat it too.

So, what would you suggest? Keep the nanny full-time or full-time day care as the only options.

I don't care what you do. I was pointing out thy you risk losing your nanny of you cut her hours.
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There are many more nannies than jobs. This risk is a phantom risk. [/quote]

Are you so callous toward everything/everyone that matters to your child? Yes there are more nannies out there, but you have one that knows your job, your family, and presumably has bonded with your kid. That is not as replaceable as you think. If any nanny will do for you, then yes, change them like you change pants. [/quote]

A "bond" with a caregiver is not equal to one of a parent or family member that will be life long.  Nannies are replaceable just like any other employee.  Just the same with any job.[/quote]

When a child's caregiver is with the child over 75% of his waking hours, that child has just as strong an attachment to the caregiver as he does to a parent.  It's insulting that you put the word bond in quoations.
That bond is very, very real to your child.[/quote]

Please keep telling yourself that you are far more important than the parents.  This is a caretaker.  Caretakers come and go.  Family and parents are the stability.  [/quote]

I never said a caretaker's bond with a child is more important than the parents'.
I simply stated that a child will develop an emotional bond to any person who meets his needs.
Why so nasty?[/quote]

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