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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How does the care per child get reduced? Does she change diapers half as often? Feed them half as many meals? put them down for half as many naps? listen to their needs half the time? She still has to care for both kids 100%, you can't really quantify the decrease in attention. Ideally all their needs will continue to get met, its just a matter of whether the nanny can essentially meet double the needs, and handle doubling her workload. [/quote]
The workload doesn't double because there is no space for it to double, unless you agree that prior to introducing the second child the nanny was doing nothing half the time. The amount of care per child does get reduced.  She now has to balance the needs of both children during the same amount of time. She may not talk/sing/read/entertain/play as much with each child because she has to fit them both in. She may have to balance the outings with the needs of both children in mind, and that means that sometimes each child won't get to do what they want.  Their needs are still met, but they will be met with a more "bare-bones" approach rather than deluxe version.  Ask any mother of two whether the amount of attention she was able to pay to #1 went down when #2 entered the picture.[/quote]

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