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[quote=Anonymous]Big sister of a boy with high-functioning autism here.

1. It is possible that this mom is totally nuts, and the kid is fine, and just really needs independent play.

2. However, it is also possible that these odd behaviors are indicative of some problems and that the mom is trying to understand what is wrong, and get a diagnosis. I would not assume that if he was on the spectrum, she must have a diagnosis. At one point, experts gave my brother all kids of conflicting diagnosis. Later in life, we waited years (literally: years) to get an appointment and report from a professional.

3. If the mom thinks her child is on the spectrum, then she is no doubt aware of some issues and is probably trying to address them. The nanny should sit down with the mom and find out what the mom wants her to be doing, and how she wants problem behavior addressed. If she has suggestions, make them. Then do what is asked. It is very likely the child needs consistency from his caregivers, whether or not you agree with the tactics being employed.

4. The nanny is on the clock and should strive to do what the MB asks during the time she is working. Within reason, of course. OP, I think you need to have a talk with MB and then go forward from there. If you really disagree strongly or don't want to do this, maybe the position isn't right for you. (Or maybe MB is a lunatic. But it's not your place to decide that, so...)[/quote]

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