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[quote=Anonymous]You really should have listened to your nanny when she repeatedly suggested a dairy allergy but she absolutely should not have made major changes to your child's diet without telling you.  Honestly, it seems like you both screwed this up.

At this point, to salvage the situation, I would sit her down and be honest - tell her how grateful you are that she was right and that she saved your son some pain but that moving forward, it is absolutely not okay for her to go against your wishes without discussing it with you.  Tell her also that you have learned your lesson and will take her advice and concerns more seriously going forward - but you must be able to trust that she will not take matters into her own hands again.

Realistically though - I don't think you'll be able to trust her again (not sure I would either), and let's be honest, she's been looking for a new job since this whole mess started anyway.

Out of curiosity, how long was it btwn the first signs of tummy troubles and the doctor's diagnosis?  And when did the nanny cut dairy?  I think that makes a difference in how badly she behaved.[/quote]

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