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[quote=Anonymous]As a Nanny, it is a different dynamic since caring for an actual PERSON is involved vs. other forms of employment.

For some - it is not easy where to draw the proverbial line…..sometimes on both ends.

Your Nanny is a little much however as a Single Mother who raised children w/no family or Father &gt;&gt; this would have been great for my children so yes, my opinion may be biased.
Lol.

When you consider the alternative it is best to have a caregiver who cares too much vs. not at all.

I would have a direct conversation w/your Nanny, letting her know that you trust her & are grateful she cares so much for your daughter.
That you feel truly blessed to have your daughter cared for by someone who genuinely loves your child as well as loves what she does.

However address the specific things that she is doing that while generous on the part of the Nanny, are just not necessary in your daughter’s life.

Try to be as diplomatic as possible.

Hopefully your Nanny will understand + take heed.
Because it is not easy to find someone you can trust 100% to care for your precious loved one.
It is something one must ever take for granted.

However if your Nanny’s reaction is one of offense, etc. then you may have to accept that the status quo dynamic is just not working for you and you may have to let your Nanny go.

I wish you only the best of luck. :)[/quote]

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