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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]so stupid. Why people use au pairs is beyond me. Quit your job and take care of your kids. If not, stop complaining when you stupidly ask total strangers from overseas to come and live in your house, and to take care of your precious - I guess not so precious, otherwise you would not be asking strangers into your house - kids. I see hese miserable girls in the park all the time, they are not taking good care of the kids. I can understand when people get a nanny but au pair thing is just stupidest thing to do.[/quote]

Because there are salesmen masquerading as LLCs who sell aupairs as Mary Poppins'esque women who live in your home, are happy to be apart of your family, and who are here to learn english and hug babies. Not partying young adults who couldn't attend college in their own countries who are here to use your car, crash at your house, sometimes keep your kids alive and use your family as an agent for a visa until they find a husband or another family to foot the bill.

If the shiny brochures matched the reality and if there was affordable childcare in this country, no one would host aupairs.

But since families do, please set boundaries on the car usage, whether you are comfortable with her basically living elsewhere and rematch if you aren't. It's your family and your children. Protect your children first and foremost. [/quote]

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