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[quote=Anonymous]OP: I completely get it. I feel like are generous with our AP re: food; she can use our credit card to get whatever she wants for herself when she shops for the family, we ask her before we shop or order groceries, we ask her what she wants when we get takeout 1-2x/week (and often ask where she’s in the mood for) and give her an extra $100/week for food (she mostly uses it for snacks & to eat out with friends). All of that said, we don’t usually eat together. She makes dinner for the kids most weeknights and also makes enough for herself if she wants some. On weekends, she is always welcome to join us for family dinners and she does like 1/3rd of the time. But otherwise? She’s really on her own to make her own dinner. We don’t eat ourselves until we have our kids in bed, so like 9ish. She’s off hours before that, so understandably has no interest in waiting for us to eat. We would have real compatibility issues if we had an OP who expected us to cook for them every night…[/quote]
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