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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you’re a woman, yes? Does your husband ever clean up after a meal? If not, I can see how your AP might think that cleanup is a task that you’ve agreed is yours. I wouldn’t want to help out, either, if my host father just peaced out after every meal and the womenfolk were expected to clean. I’d be like, that’s your weird, regressive dynamic, not mine.[/quote]

+1. I wonder what the dad is doing. Probably sits on couch[/quote]

Jeez. I am the OP and checked back today. When I pick up the kitchen DH takes the kids upstairs and does bathtime and gets them all ready for bed. I don’t like doing bath (at all) or brushing my DDs hair or doing teeth checks which is why I asked to have the dinner clean up shift. Sometimes we switch if he wants a break but I like that 20 minutes of alone time, except when it is not alone because my AP watches. My husband does plenty around the house so I’m not sure why distribution of labor is an issue here. [/quote]

Then you're more upset about her company that not helping?[/quote]

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