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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]From experience - I would be really careful not to try to attract with too many perks. I have managed to find a rematch AP with no added perks other than some extra time off and a schedule that doesn't include weekends. I am also allowing her to have one friend over into the house because I recognize it is very hard to be locked down in a country away from home. I find that the girls attracted to perks are quick to rematch and not really willing to do the work. And I do pay the AP more in the end.. I just don't advertise it and instead focus on making sure they understand they will be treated well. [/quote] Exactly! One of our APs would hang out with her AP friends and they would criticize our house since it was not a mcmansion. Surprise! She was also a less than average au pair. I do feel like the rematch/extension pool right now is all about the perks. And travelling. And sleeping over at their boyfriends. And flying to Florida. No thank you. Life is hard enough right now. [/quote] It is all about actually having a cultural exchange. Got it.[/quote]
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