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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have asked our au pair to always wear a mask indoors except at our house (so including in the homes of her friend APs) and to avoid crowded places. We said she could choose two friends to bring into our home, masked, and see them only in the basement (which has her bedroom, bathroom and TV/lounge room plus its own entrance). We have given her complete free reign with our car -- even to the extent it impacts us -- and free gas with the understanding that she will not use any public transportation. We ask her to discuss her plans with us in advance if there are gray areas to these rules and told her we will always do our best to come up with a compromise that works for both of us. So far, so good.[/quote] So far so good or she just lies. We are being completely flexible with our au pair (we are somewhat desperate and luckily have no risk factors), but our au pair has told us all her friends just lie to their host families. [/quote] If you would assume your au pair was lying to you about this — not like a one time slip or deviation, but in general — then how could you possibly trust them to watch your children? I trust my au pair. I have no reason to think she’s lying to me.[/quote]
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