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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You really shouldn’t tie her extra vacation to... well, anything. She can’t make it up, and you can’t expect her to do anything extra has a result. Also since you didn’t schedule her for work over it, she probably isn’t viewing it the way you are. [/quote]

I expected her to do a few small kid-related tasks, but otherwise it was 100% her choice to remain here and invite her family. Since she asked for her family to visit I couldn’t very well “make” her  come with us over the holidays. [/quote]

Wait, she had chores during the two weeks?  If so, reframe it in her mind.  It was NOT vacation, you don’t get to count it like it was.[/quote]

She had 2 small tasks and I never said we counted it as vacation - I said she got EXTRA Time off. What I asked her to do might have taken 2 hours total during the whole 2 weeks. [/quote]

Doesn’t matter, it’s still chores to be done.  How well she did them doesn’t matter either, unless you were very specific about how you wanted them done.[/quote]

I was specific. And she didn’t do them all. And I never said I was counting it as vacation.  Sheesh![/quote]

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