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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t get it: AP has a guest house. Guest house implies a separate entrance. Why would she need to have the guy enter the main house, or even herself enter the main house to pack bags for the trip?

If the only entrance to AP’s room is through main house equipped with the Ring, then her quarters are not really private. [/quote]

OP probably means private guest suite, like a basement. Or if it really is a guest house, the shortest way is to walk through the house to get to it in the back (fenced in pool house) rather than go around.

I think OP has valid concerns. Your AP’s an idiot thinking she can go on an overnight with a young Navy guy and not expect sex (2 beds and sleeping separately is definitely NOT what he intends). Sure, she’s not going to call whatever happens “rape” because of her poor choices that led to it, but she should be able to say “no, I don’t want to have sex” at any time and be able to stop.

You can continue to watch the train wreck for the rest of her year, then pass her off to another family, or rematch sooner because her poor choices also affect your family’s safety. APs can get stalkers and be victims of their own risky behavior.[/quote]

As the wife of a naval veteran, I’m offended by this comment. A man (or woman) that has chosen to defend our country deserves our respect, not to be labeled as some sexual predator. The fact that he is in the military is irrelevant to this post. [/quote]

Whether or not he's in the Navy is irrelevant, so no offense was meant. It was merely a descriptor given by the OP. The fact remains that these are young people "dating" and going overnight somewhere with a hotel reservation. AP is delusional if she thinks that there will not be sex (as indicated by her belief they're going to be in separate beds).[/quote]

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