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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sigh. OP back again. Au pair is now asking for additional vacation time (beyond her already spoken for 2 weeks) to travel with boyfriend so that she can stick with our limitation of him staying at our house for a week.

And she told us her best friend’s parents bought her friend a plane ticket for Christmas, so she’d like her friend to come stay with us for a different week.

Which agency has the rule about no inciting houseguests to staynwith host family? BRILLIANT. [/quote]

Hi OP, I am the one who posted about my agency no inciting houseguests, It is EurAupair, but keep in mind that mosts APs will still try to ask you to host their family anyway regardless of the rule, you got to be able to say No to them when needed.
With that say, Did you AP already took her two weeks vacations? if not she still has one week she could take with her boyfriend, if yes she did some bad planning and that is on her.
Next, regarding her friend, I think you should tell her it is ok to come but at the end of her stay, she cannot dictated her friend schedule on you, if they already selected the date without asking you, too bad they will need to get an hotel. This protect you in case you go into rematch because the way I see things going she might not last long. You really just need to learn to say No otherwise she going to keep trying other random BS.

Good luck![/quote]

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