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[quote=Anonymous]I do think you should really dig deep about how you feel about the housekeeping. No matter how much they value and love you, you will be cleaning the bathrooms and picking up and they won't. Some people would take pride in doing a great job of caring for the house, earning a good wage, and having an adventure in Hawaii on someone else's living expenses dime. Some people would start to resent it, and would end up feeling icky about it. I think what they're telling you, though, is that if you don't go, they are going to hire a housekeeper/nanny who can transition with their older kids. So, there's probably not a job available without the cleaning portion, though you could pitch one: weekly cleaning service and you pick up most of the cooking? Or something else equally time-consuming and valuable?[/quote]
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