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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You consented by NOT saying "I don't consent to the audio." You said it made you uncomfortable because of singing, they said no, and you said .... nothing after that. Thus, you consented. I'm sorry. But if it helps at all, they're not judging your singing, or showing it to others or laughing at you for it or anything. They're just making sure you aren't cursing out their kids while smiling, aren't saying it's a good thing they're pretty because they sure are stupid, or bashing the parents to the kids. I am in CA, have cameras and am not spending all day watching the nanny. I don't have time. I watched more when my babies were very young, and check in when they're sick, or they're going through a difficult phase. [/quote] People are responding that consent was given, but they are only speaking of their opinion . Again, if a woman goes up to a guy’s room, kisses him and even has foreplay, if he then rapes her when she didn’t want it.... Does this mean she gave consent by only saying no at the very last second?? If a Nanny is told that she is being recorded via audio and if she continues after that, then how can consent be proven in a court of law?? It cannot because legally she never gave consent to be recorded. If anyone can prove me wrong, I will eat crow. And buy you a steak for dinner too. ;)[/quote] Your comparison makes no sense. If I was going to make a comparison with a sexual situation, it would be this. A woman goes to a man's house, engages in foreplay, and then states that she's going to change, goes into the bathroom, comes out naked, and then sues him for being a peeping Tom, because he saw her naked. Of course it wouldn't stand in court. By coming into the room naked, when she knew he was there, she consented to him seeing her naked. If he'd been hiding in her closet, it would be different, of course. But not if he was out in the open and there when she went into the room. Similarly, a woman who enters a room where she's clearly been told that there's audio recording, is consenting to being audio recorded. [/quote]
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