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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is so clueless. [/quote]

You are insane!  OP is home with her child ALL WEEK LONG and runs a CHARITY on weekends and needs a nanny for three days a week!

What is wrong with you people?  This is a NANNY FORUM.  Is there now something suddenly wrong with having a nanny while your work for three days out of seven?  [/quote]

Yes because the dh doesn't seem involved. Very sad. And what sort of non profit has events all weekend long every weekend. Bs. [/quote]

Well, if OP is in charge of scheduling everything, supervising set up for events, supervising the event, and then making sure everything is cleaned up on time...  I could see most weekends taken up by this type of work, depending on the charity's focus.  My sister works with an animal rescue, leaves her home around 7 am and sometimes doesn't return until 10 pm on weekends.  Of course, my sister is also busy all week online, so she works far more than OP does.

OP, each caregiver in a child's life has a different bond with that child.  You know that the bond your child has with you is not the same as he has with his father or the former nanny.  He loves his former nanny, and because he continues to see her, she's still in the forefront of his mind instead of being relegated to fond memory.  Let the current nanny know about your concern, and ask the former nanny to guide the conversation to current nanny when she next spends time with your son.  Unless the former nanny has concerns due to what he shares, I don't see the issue.[/quote]

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