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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let it go for now, but bring it up after the holiday. And give her a break. There are a ton of people in her house, who are apparently high-maintenance guests, her autistic toddlers are out of their routine so her evenings and overnights arw probably a train wreck and her child was lost. I am sure she was losing it with worry about her kid and embarassment that her neighbor witnessed the whole thing. Bring it up, but have some empathy too. She needs a wake-up call, but she probably needs a stiff drink too. ;)[/quote] So it's fine for her to go off on OP be sure poor MB is stressed. She invited all these people and she should have told them that OP has absolute authority over children. What a jerk.[/quote] No one has said to let it go permanently. We have advised that a little empathy will go a long way towards resolving this to everyone’s satisfaction. Y’know, like a grown up.[/quote] I believe I’m reacting as a “grown up”. I’ve yet to quit or really take any action because I’m still heated. I would be willing to let it go if she apologized. I know it was super stressful and terrifying for her, but she did not have the right to blame me. The fault does not lie on me. I’m confident in that, and I think she knows too... I want her to calm down, and apologize. I want an apology for the blame and for allowing her family to treat me so poorly. If it happens, all is forgiven and we can move on... if not, I need to find a position where I’m not fearful I’ll be blamed for any mishaps beyond my control. [/quote]
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