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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The nanny took the job knowing its location and her own transportation issues so it is on her to find her way around. I don't drive and I don't expect my employer to arrange my transportation to and from work to anywhere.[/quote] No, this got more complicated when OP said it was a friend of a relative. This could mean many things, including that the relative said, "Oh! I know someone who needs a place to live. She could be your nanny," and it came with all sorts of expectations that the husband understood but OP did not. I'm guessing DH doesn't want to upset the relative by doing anything that would make the nanny unhappy, and it's possible the nanny thought of this as more like "joining the family" of her friend. Just sounds like a huge mess waiting to happen with lots of hurt feelings.[/quote]
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