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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My NF travels at least 8 weeks a year. They pay my for ALL of them. They encourage my traveling when they are away. Wouldn't you do the same if you were in your nannies situation? She wouldn't have planned the trip if you were going to be in town. I would just tell her to enjoy her vacation and be on your way. Your nanny will appreciate this SO much and will in turn pitch in more/feel appreciated. I don't always go away when my NF travels, and I offer to watch their dog/organize/water plants, etc. I would be so turned off by a family that is super calculated about vacation days, etc. I have been with my family 3.5 years. [/quote] She does always go away when we travel. Like I said, we leave, she travels while we are gone...doesn't bother me. She takes a two week trip, and we are out of town for four days in the middle of it, and she says those are her guaranteed hours so we owe her several hundred dollars...does bother me. [/quote] If she's being petty, feel free to be petty too. I would tell her they are guaranteed because she's on call, and that you've decided you may or may not go on the trip and may or may not return early so you'll let her know each night prior if she is expected the next day. And then I would cut ties with her. [/quote]
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