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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He learns at work, it's like getting paid to go to school. He will not have any student loans. I think we will be better off than the average students who have 27k in student debt. I've been going to cheap schools so my debt is small. I don't plan on mooching at all. I agree a little bit of help= watching the child one afternoon every couple weeks, and a stroller etc. i have had a traumatic life, my mom passed at age 1, I had an abusive stepmother, while my dad stood by and blew my social security on his wife. He has sense divorced and knows he owes me for standing by as I was abused and also for the thousands in clothes and nessesitties that I should have gotten with the social security checks instead of working 30+ hours a week starting at age 14 (Minnesota). The last thing I need is to give up this baby, I know it will just be another dramatic event that will leave me depressed. I shouldn't really have to explain all this to you but you obviously don't have a heart and are judging pretty hard [/quote]

It sounds like you feel like your dad owes you and will deliver. Does HE feel like he owes you and will deliver free childcare and money? And, do you TRUST him to take good care of your child after how well he took care of you?  $7k goes quickly.

It also sounds like you feel like you deserve a baby because of the difficulty you went through as a child. This is concerning - babies don't know or care about what you've gone through, and you can't heal yourself by mothering. Of course I have a heart. Sometimes what's most practical is not what feels best in the moment. [/quote]

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