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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Given the weather I called the nanny the other day. I just told her how I felt really disappointed that she and the other family would not be transparent about starting a new share that we would not be a part of, but I understand that for her it would be more money with four kids (2 infants, 2 preschoolers) and stability for her employment. I truly don't know if she is selling me a bill of goods, but I believe her that she felt out on the spot and wanted another job. I asked why she would work for a stranger she had never met rather than my wife and me. She said she would try to help us find another nanny. We have always been transparent about LO being on our work child care wait list but the chances of LO getting in are extremely low. I have to say I feel like there must have been something we done to be treated this way and wonder how long they have been deciding this move. If they had just been honest with us, it wouldn't be so hard, but these are three adults I trusted with my LO. Maybe we will luck out and find a spot in a preschool with extended after care, maybe we will do an au pair. Right now I just really feel lousy. My wife said to think of it as a positive, move on and be the bigger person. I really want to tell the other family how I feel but I know I won't as I don't want any conflict for my wife or son. [/quote]

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