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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your situation is so much like ours I could have written it. We also helped our nanny with lawyers fees for her work permit. It was a loan and, at the time, she could not pay us back but she was supposed to let us know when she wanted to begin deductions from her paycheck. It's been a year now and she has not brought it up. Most recently, something else came up and she needed a cash advance. Again, no mention of pay back. We will have to bring it up in the New Year. There's a fine line between helping someone and truly wanting the best for them --- to feeling taken advantage of. Our nanny is wonderful and has been with us for 4+ years. I feel for her situation as she has multiple family members she takes care of, but we can't be responsible. [/quote]
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