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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think stability is one of the most important things for a child, as an MB I see that the bond my children (6 and 2) have with their nanny is deeply important to them. Though I, as an adult, have many annoyances with our nanny at times (and I am sure she with me) I put in effort to keep things stable for the children. That includes allowing nanny to bring her young children to work when she needs to, which my children actually love. There are many benefits of having a nanny with children. I am sure there are more perfect nannies out there and to be honest I am sometimes tempted to try someone new when I see glowing recommendations on my neighborhood listserve, but from a child's perspective consistency in the adults in their lives is crucial.[/quote]

You would be surprised how quickly they grow bonds with someone else, especially at that age. I mean, if you are happy with minor annoyances, that is wonderful. However, if you happened to find that it is no longer a great fit, then getting a new one is nowhere near the end of the world.[/quote]
Do you seriously know nothing about attachment during the first three years of a child's life?[/quote]

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