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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I brought my child, my NF never asked me for a discount rate. They said in my reference letter that they could not have found better care for their baby. Both parents were physicians. I provided care for two years, when they moved to Europe.[/quote] Of course they could have; you without your child would have been better. You with your child is second best compared to you without the child.[/quote] Not in their opinion. See how narrow minded you are? Not all intelligent parents think that being the only child is a plus.[/quote] Yes, pretty much all intelligent parents think their child would be better off cared for by a woman whose first priority is her own child. This is not a only child vs. child with sibling situation. This is a situation of having a woman always put your child second to her own. A terrible situation for the poor little thing. [/quote] You haven't clue which child I put first. Again, not everyone is as selfish as you sound. Get a grip.[/quote] You have a biological imperative to put your own child first, PP, unless you are a very bad mother. So I have more than a "clue" that you would put your child first - I have hundred of centuries of evolution to prove it. Please stop embarrassing yourself. You had a great gig with people who accepted this less than ideal situation ONCE. Stop posting the same story every time this topic comes up. [/quote] You can't even begin to fathom the fact that this arrangement can (and DID) work out beautifully in a stable, competent and loving way for two very happy families, but most of all for BOTH children. Too bad if that just KILLS you and your narrow-minded self. [/quote]
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