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[quote=Anonymous]Honestly, OP, it sounds like your whole family has a really bad relationship with health and weight.

I'm horrified for what you say your father does.  Does he treat you like this, too?  This is extremely unhealthy and even bordering on abusive, in my opinion.  NOT OKAY.  How do your SIL and mother handle this?  How do you handle this?  Do people tell him that he can't talk to people like this?  How is everyone putting up with this?

This is not going to be healthy for your child if he continues like this.  It's a VERY bad situation.

As for your DH, he sounds like not a big deal but should learn not to say these things to people regularly or people he isn't extremely good friends with.  He needs to realize that someone like your nanny might be anxious about extra weight she's put on.

I once rented a house with a shared kitchen from an old woman who regularly told me, "I can't believe you're going to eat that!  You're going to get fat!" when I cooked dinner in the kitchen.  It made me SO mad, especially because I had suffered from anorexia not too long before that and was aware that I needed to focus on just eating, not counting calories or worrying about fat.  This sort of thing is NOT appropriate and can lead to really bad outcomes.[/quote]

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