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[quote=Anonymous]I have seen many instances where friends, family members, and employers think is something is missing.  Then they think they've re-traced who was in the house and decided it could only be one person.  It never panned out to be true.  Many times the things were still in the house.  Sometimes things were accidentally thrown out or donated.  Even DH and I have done that.  No one can accurately remember things that went on in the past, and accidents happen with donations, garbage, and just where things are placed in the house.  Also, people generally forget who has had access to the house.

In addition, I highly doubt a repair person or a nanny would just feel like those trains are so valuable that they must steal them and risk their jobs, etc.  If OP feels like she was always a good nanny, why pin this on her?  She needs to chalk it up to one of those mysteries of life and get over it.  I've had movers lose much more important things.  It is fine to call and nicely ask her if she knows by chance where they are, under the idea that maybe she knows where they were moved to during re-organization or something.  However it would be entirely unfair to think she knows for sure nanny took them, or have it affect any references she is asked to give.[/quote]

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