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[quote=Anonymous]This is the OP... Wow, I didn't expect some of the reactions here, especially not being accused of modern slavery. I am genuinely coming from a good place and do not want to exploit anyone and never would. This nanny is very dear to me (and dare I say, we are to her as well). I hadn't considered the option of bring her with us (because of the kids) until she asked me if she could come when I informed her we would be moving. While my initial reaction was no, I then started thinking whether I am really the one who should be making these decisions for her and am I discriminating against her if I don't give her the job. I know she will be very upset if we get someone else instead, but at the same time I have a hard time being the reason she would move away from her kids. I want to add that I have told her that if she doesn't come with us we want to pay for her kids' schooling so that she will still have a better financial situation back home regardless of whether she moves or not. [/quote]
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