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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]LOL because NONE of these moms ever spend time on their phone while they're supposed to be taking care of their kids, right?[/quote] Nannies are not substitute mothers. It makes no difference to me if my MB spends every waking second of her weekend texting -- I am not her. I only text/talk during my lunch break when the kids are asleep. I hate seeing nannies and mothers on their phone constantly when I am out with my charges. [/quote] What makes you think a primary caregiver nanny isn't a substitute mother?[/quote] "Mother" is a relationship. A life-long relationship. "Nanny" is a job. A job with a limited time frame of the early years only. [/quote] Thoughtful Mothers *hope* that Nanny is also a relationship. If Nanny and your child aren't in a firm relationship, you have big problems ahead. Mark my words.[/quote] OF COURSE, nannies should have loving and nurturing relationships with our children - but that does not make them pretend mothers/substitute mothers! My nanny and DS are very bonded but she doesn't feel that she is his substitute mother and neither do I. Our relationships with my child are very different. [/quote]
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