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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] Get a sitter, as this nanny is over-qualified for this MB. Another family would be thrilled to get her knowledge, experience level and professionalism.[/quote] I agree this nanny is not a good fit with this MB. The nanny's job is to reduce stress, not generate it. She should let the nanny go so she can go generate stress somewhere else.[/quote] On the contrary, the nanny's job is to provide the best possible childcare according to her education, training and experience. Your confusion about this issue accounts for about 95 percent of all problems between the nannies and the parents. Perhaps a good mental health therapist or some physical exercise could help the mb learn how to reduce her stress level. Most nannies are not equipped to assist with that. [/quote] There are lots of ways to provide the "best possible childcare." There is no one right way to do this. The nanny has zero experience with this particular kid. And she also has zero authority to decide what's right for the kid. If the mother wants to do things a different way, and the nanny can't take it, she should leave rather than lecture the person who signs her checks. The nanny will never win in this conflict. The nanny's job is to reduce stress, not generate it. She should go generate stress somewhere else. [/quote]
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