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[quote=Anonymous][quote=nannydebsays]OP, I am sorry you are struggling with PPD. I hope you can find a more supportive mental health caregiver to help you through this, and that you start to feel better soon. That said, your nanny sounds like a bit of an entitled BRAT. I am given access to my employer's kitchen (and I do the shopping), and I would never even consider it to be OK to ask my bosses to make me some lunch daily. If I am working, so are my employers, and the idea that they would stop doing their work to prepare meals for me is so insane as to be ridiculous. I think it's time for a sit down with your nanny. If you are not mentally able to do it, have your SO take the lead. "Nanny, I just want to reiterate that you are welcome to prepare your meals in our kitchen and eat our food. If there is a specific type of food that we can purchase for you at XYZ store, please add it to the list we keep on the frig. we are also fine with you taking DC out to get your lunch if you prefer to buy something for yourself daily." [/quote] Yes! I hope the majority of the nanny responses are fakes just looking to stir the pot because it's just downright embarrassing. Never in a million years would I expect my employers to stop and make me lunch or even offer to do so. I do not exact for them to buy extras because I am a picky eater.I happen to work for and have always worked for great people. I care for children I do not behave like I still am a child. Take care of yourself, OP and never mind your nanny's drama. I wouldn't suggest firing her only because that will probably end up being more stress for you. I sincerely hope you start to feel better soon. [/quote]
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