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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe she doesn't want her husband to know that she is out socializing, either because he wouldn't approve of her spending more $$ for childcare or because he is already pressuring her to spend more time with the children.  Glossing over the truth is preferable to being straight with you and hoping or asking that you keep the secret from DB.

Also, depending on what she does, there may be a very fine line between business and personal socializing.  Many professionals have colleagues or clients with whom they socialize, partly for the sake of networking or client retention and partly because they enjoy each other.  Many professionals are also conscious of trying to cultivate business prospects from within their social circle.  So maybe her recent plans did have a business dimension to them.

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MB would need to take that up with her husband, not make OP an unwilling accomplice to her deceit. Your explanation actually makes it worse. Now OP has to decide whether she will life to DB! I agree that business and pleasure can overlap, I don't think that is likely in this case though. I used to work in club promotions where I had to entertain clients in the evening. If I were going to see a band that I hoped to book for my clients venue I would bring friends along for the show. I also would have made it clear to a potential nanny what the nature of my work was. [/quote]

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