Reply to Snow day. Is your live-in nanny working?

Forum Index » Employer Issues

Reply to "Snow day. Is your live-in nanny working?"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I the only MB that has to do the same work on snow days--just from home? I mean, so much of work is now via email that it really makes no difference. So long as we have power, I have to work.  Try doing that AND looking after the kids- not fun! I would really not even be in a position to give the live-in nanny a snow day--would make no sense. 
[/quote]

No - you're not.  The same is true for me and my husband.  So we can both be at home on snow days but still be expected to be available for conference calls, working online, etc...  Unless we've lost power we both have employers that expect us to work or take vacation time.  So our nanny stays over if bad weather is predicted.[/quote]

Your situation makes sense. OP however did not have to work. If you're also not working, and you asked your live-in to work anyway, it comes across a little bit like milking her for every dime. If this is a rare occurrence, and OP needed to actually get things done (ie. she wasn't sitting in bed watching TV while nanny dealt with the kids), it would be fine. Its when you make a habit of milking your nanny for everything you can get that breeds ill feelings. If this has been happening all winter, and OP is also the type to make her nanny work holidays that she has off, and she makes her nanny "earn her keep" while they travel, and so on and so forth, then yeah, that's going to piss your nanny off, even if "that's why you have a live in". Its human nature. No one likes working while others sit idle. It doesn't sound like that is the case here, and OP seemed to find a fair compromise. [/quote]

I honestly don't think someone is "milking their nanny for everything they can get" if all they are doing is asking her to work the usual time for her regular salary.  If I have a day off and choose to spend it reading, or getting a massage or running errands or having an affair or darning the kids' clothes or whatever... it doesn't really matter.   I'm paying someone to work in my home and oversee my kids.  How I choose to spend that time - whether it's in or out of the house - is my business.  The nanny is being paid - she's not being "milked".

Your judgment/attitude is really distasteful.[/quote]

+1.  Why do nannies on this forum think they are being "milked" because they are expected to work the hours they contracted to work?  Why do they think that there is something horrid about a boss wanting to get his or her "money's worth" out of a nanny, by, say, having her do the job she is being paid to do?  Every boss in every context expects his or her employees to "earn their keep," and if the boss doesn't feel like that is happening, the employee won't be kept around for long.

Not sure why the nanny poster quoted above has so much trouble with this.
[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics