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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm curious as to what you all think of this. I raised the pictures tonight and asked that she share them with us. I offered to set up and pay for a Dropbox or other similar file sharing setup. She was highly reluctant, saying she didn't know how, etc. I told her we would show her. She then said "I will give you some but these pictures are for me. I want some just for me."

I had to walk away at that point. We are the parents. There are no pictures of our toddler and baby that we should be denied seeing. She has done this kind of thing before - telling me not to say a certain word to my son because it is "her word" with him.

So, what do I do now? I'm absolutely not ok with this and think it signifies a bigger problem. I am planning on telling her in the morning that her keeping pictures from us is unacceptable and non-negotiable. Any thoughts?[/quote]

Pp with website here again, this absolutely crossing the line and she has no right to refuse to withhold pictures or tell you how to speak or  care for your children. She has an unhealthy relationship going on and it probably stems from her subconsciously thinking she's the mother. You need tell her as the another pp stated, you never gave her permission to take photos of your child and will take her to court. She needs to be replaced immediately. While I understand bonding and taking pictures ( I do it all day) I would never refuse to give them to the parents, never mind tell them how to raise their kids. You never answered my question about age and experience because that might be a huge indicator of why she has such boundary issues. [/quote]

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