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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Bad care of a child often has often has lifelong consequences. Abuse and/or neglect can have horrific consequences, not just for that family, but for the greater society.[/quote] Bad childcare does not produce a child with special needs. Children with special needs are that way at birth.[/quote] You must be right. That's why we're making such a fuss about "The Hell of American Daycare". Child neglect and abuse has consequences. But you just keep on believing that nothing matters. Moron.[/quote] There's a HUGE difference between a child with special needs and consequences due to abuse. No one is saying bad child care doesn't have any consequences but it doesn't create children with special needs because, as PP said, children with special needs are born that way. You need to learn the difference before you start calling people morons, it just makes you look like an ignorant bully.[/quote] Don't you know that abused children are more likely to become abusers? Their mental health has been compromised. "Special needs" can easily develop. We still don't know if Adam Lanza had been abused. We do know he was neglected. Even though he was "intellegent", he was definately "special needs". Maybe his parents smoked when he was in utero, or whatever, so yes, he was likely born with some difficulties. Interesting how it usually takes several years for the special needs to present. I'd want a detailed history of the pregnancy, the birth, and the caregiving, if some special needs developed over time. Would you be defensive about that? Do you think Adam's psychiatrist collected these details from his parents? [/quote]
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