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[quote=Anonymous]Thank you for your long reply :)

The kid has a habit of kicking me on the leg when he gets home and says "hi ...", mistaking my name on purpose ... and he did kick me too in front of his parents and they were laughing ... inside I was very angry :(

I understand what you say about the program and I guess I was expecting too much when I got here and that my reaction to their leaving without me sounds immature and selfish from me.

I'm sad that they chose not to include me, and it's hard for me to move on because the other things that are not ok have added to each other.

It's hard for me to get out at night because I'm done at 9.30pm after I put the kid to bed and most au pairs, who are not close by either, go out earlier than that.
So I'm not included in their plans and I understand that.
Sometimes I go out to the mall by myself or to borders to check stationary and books and drink some coffee by myself.
So there are evenings that I'd be happy to watch some tv. Just like anybody else :)

About being tired, I didn't get over the jet lag yet and I take naps during the day because I am bored/depressed/tired. I know I should stop taking these naps to feel better.

My decision is taken and I will leave this family. There's not much left from the sympathy I had for them before my coming and when I got here, right now I'm just angry and want to move on.
I'll let you know how it goes :) Thank you.[/quote]

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