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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is it the assumption that nannies don't have kids? Many of us do have kids, and personally I don't use the fact that I worked all day to be a lazy parent. It may be hard some times but this is about what's best for your kids. Having rules, respecting boundaries, and following directions are important for a peaceful home life, but are equally important life skills. I use the fact that I'm tired at the end of the day to motivate me to teach my children responsibility and independence. From a young age they knew the rules and we were consistent. They had responsibilities and there was no crying about the blue plate or whatever. Nonsense. OP should be compassionate? Lol. Why do we need to show compassion because someone CHOSE to have kids and a career. I'll save my compassion for people with actual problems, thanks. [/quote]

13:39 again. First of all, I didn't say all nannies don't have children. I said specifically "unless nannies have children." Secondly, why can't you have compassion? As I already said, I'm in a similar situation to you, I have a career AND I manage to be a parent who can be consistent and have happy, well behaved children. But that doesn't stop me from having compassion for people who can't do it all. It's easy to be annoyed and get angry but the people you are annoyed with don't care what you think and it isn't healthy for you. [/quote]

Where did I say I was annoyed? I frankly don't give 2 shits. I don't work for people who can't be consistent or who don't care enough about their kids to be present in body and mind. I don't have compassion because its not a problem. Having kids to take care of is not a problem, it was a decision you made. I have compassion for people who are hungry, homeless, disease ridden, are abused, etc. not for people who have children and especially those who have children and hire a nanny who fulfills the kid's every need aside from provide supervision in the evenings. What else is left to do really besides follow through on the boundaries your nanny sets during the day. Compassion? Give me a break. [/quote]

Ok. [/quote]

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