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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm all for searching for a better sitter, but within reason. You should first determine how many different primary caregivers are too many. Because at some point, you are most certainly doing more harm to your child, than good. That should be your primary concern. And what can you do differently next time around, as not to repeat the same mistakes.[/quote]

That's kind've dramatic. Kids switch care providers all the time in preschool, daycare, etc. The child will forget nanny within days. There are much better care providers out there that will actually make a difference and be worth the money spent on childcare.[/quote]

High turnover of primary caregivers IS dramatic for a little child. Why not take a course or two in early childhood devlopement and learn a few parenting skills.

I guarantee you, you'll soon learn that stability for a young child is paramount. Children who are denied that fundamental right, often suffer lifelong pain and hardship. Well into adulthood, they battle emotional and psychological damage done to them during their early childhood development. I suspect that some posters here, who keep the revolving nanny door well-oiled, were themselves victims of similar early trauma. Hence, the constant irritation with each incoming/outgoing nanny. They themselves are frequently unable to sustain longterm relationships that are challenging and demand hard work. The mother-nanny relationship is the easiest to severe again and again, with no end in sight. And the little child falls though the cracks of this horrific routine.

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Please shut up troll. *the story telling troll can also be identified by post that take up more space than they need to, with a bunch of extra empty lines*

Cue her returning with a sarcastic response about me shutting down discussions.....[/quote]
It sounds like she tells people to "shut up" about a 100 times a day. [/quote]

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