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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She's can f out side the house,but not inside ,this is is orrrrbnlljgttujmhgi[/quote]

No, I would prefer if she would hang out with the family more. I had to wrangle the kids by myself at the park yesterday. I had to feed them also... by myself. She and the BF just walked by and didn't offer to help me out at all. She said that her and him are going out to early dinner at 5 and would like to take the girls. HELL YES. I have been dealing with them alone for 2 days now. [/quote]

She's your nanny, not your parenting partner. If you want her help you need to pay for it. This is her time off. Why on earth would you expect her to pitch in and help you take care of your kids on her day off?

I was a l/i nanny for a couple different families. My time off was just that...my time off. No child-related duties. My employers in both situations were great about keeping the kids away from me on my time off. If I happened to be in the kitchen getting myself something to eat and one of the kids wandered in and asked for a drink I was happy to get it, but if my employers caught the kids asking me for something on my day off they were reminded not to bother me. Then my employers reminded me to send the kids to them b/c I wasn't expected to help on my time off. That being said I was welcome to join them when I wanted on my time off, but not expected to pitch in to help out.

You need to develop some respectful boundaries with your nanny. Her time off should be just that. She should not be expected to help you on her time off just b/c she is in the house. If hearing her having sex bothers you ask her to keep it to the hours everyone is sleeping or go to her boyfriend's place during the day for such activities. [/quote]

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